Any specific days? I don’t know of any website that lists things, but here’s a list I made to keep track of some of the clubs I occasionally go to. There are several good darkwave/goth/new wave (nothing that focuses extensively on minimal wave/synth, unfortunately.)
First Saturday of the month is New Wave City at the DNA Lounge (11th and harrison)
First Tuesday is Shutter (my personal favorite), a darkwave club at 330 Ritch St,
Every Tuesday is Black Tuesday at Delirium in the Mission (16th between Mission and Valencia)
Every Monday is Death Guild, the largest goth night in the city (and the best place to people watch… people sometimes take themselves WAAAAAY seriously there)
First Friday of the month is Loaded, a hipster electro club at the Rickshaw Stop (Fell and Van Ness),
Second Saturday is Gossip at the Cat Club (80s/new wave, this month is Depeche Mode night)
Third Thursday of the month is Meat at the DNA Lounge, an EBM/industrial night (especially fun are Meat vs Death Guild nights)
First Thurday is Laquer at the Beauty Bar, an indie/electro/new wave night on the hipster side
Third Thursday is Louder Than Bombs, my friend’s monthly Smiths/Morrissey party at the Beauty Bar (be warned - they only play Moz stuff!)
There are other things around too, of course. Search myspace for some of these clubs, and check out their friend lists for other things I may not even know about.
For shows, check out this site, it lists everything:
http://jon.luini.com/thelist/
